Because Life is too short...
I decided I wanted to do the Peace Corps about 2 years
ago. My journey into the Peace Corps has
not been an easy one...either mentally or physically. So why am I going to the Peace Corps? Because life
is too short not to!My answer, though from the heart, is also derived from Returned Peace Corps Volunteers, retirees, and middle
aged men and women alike. The RPCV's I
know have all told me this is a life changing opportunity and that they wouldn't
trade their experience for anything.
Older folks I know, encourage me to do it while I can which can is kind of
sad to hear. Sad because it sounds like
they missed their shot at doing something adventurous when they were younger.
Before I tell you what my main reasons for going are, I
should explain why I almost didn't go...
After I applied, had my interview and was nominated, it took
another 6 months to get medically approved (The longest process EVER). I remember the day I saw my medical status
change online to Approved. That little
check box next to my medical status was the best thing I had seen in
months. I was medically approved on a
Friday and was so excited because after getting medically approved you move to
placement. I remember celebrating that weekend
with friends telling them that I had finally moved onto Placement. This meant
it would only be a couple of months longer before I knew where I would be
going. Two days later, on Monday, I
decided to go for a run on town lake after work (those of you that live in
Austin know what an awesomely fun trail it is to run and how I am a frequent
visitor :)) I wasn't even 10 minutes into my run when I was running through the
auditorium shores area of the trail when a giant black lab jumped into me full
speed. The lab took
out my legs from under me and I went flying in the air and belly flopped onto the ground. It took me a minute or two to
roll over and I assured the crowd that had gathered around me that I was
fine. I managed to make it on my feet
and thought I could run off my injury and that I was fine...but that was not the case. I made it a couple of feet before I knew
something was terribly wrong with my arm.
My right arm was starting to swell and I couldn't really extend it. With the help of friends I
made it to the urgent care clinic by my house. I
waited in a
waiting room for 2 hours before I was checked out by a doctor. The result when I was finally checked out:
broken elbow. At that point I knew my
journey into the Peace Corps would be delayed even more.
At first, I took my
broken elbow as a sign that I just wasn't meant to go (I am a big believer in
signs).Why else would I break my elbow and basically have to wait another 12 months
before I could be medically cleared again?
Also, at this point the placement office sent an email to everyone
letting them know that due to budget cuts the placement process would be
delayed. It was pretty evident I was
just not supposed to go. Or maybe it was
that I wasn't meant to go yet. If I had
never broken my elbow I would not have met the most wonderful guy in the world
(my boyfriend/best friend of a year and a half) or had the opportunity to work
for The University of Texas and meet some of the best people to work with and
for. If I could meet that black lab
again I'd give him the biggest hug ever for running into me. I can’t imagine not having my boyfriend in my
life or meeting the wonderful people I have in this past year.
With the new additions to my life (the great job and best
boyfriend ever) how could I say Yes to the Peace Corps when they finally asked
me? Well here is how:
•I have always wanted
to learn a second language. Ever since I studied abroad and heard such a
variety of languages I knew I’d be missing out if I never learned at least one
other language.
•I want to travel. I've always wanted to travel and see more. As
I get older it becomes easier for me to stay in one place and conform to the
norms in society like getting married, buying a house, and doing the same job
for years. Not that there is anything
wrong with that. It’s just not me, well
not yet at least.
•I am at my best when
I am helping others. I really am so much
happier when I know I am being of use and know that I am contributing to something
greater than myself.
•I need new
experiences or else I'll become boring :)
•Because I believe I
can do it.
•I never want to have
any regrets! This is the main reason why I’m going. I never want to look back on my life and
think about what might have been or what I might have accomplished.
And finally the reason why I can go:
Because I have the full support of my family, my boyfriend
and friends like You!!
I am so excited to get started on this new adventure in my
life!
BTW: I leave for D.C. on March 4th and will fly
to Nicaragua for training on March 6th!!!
Love you all!
Mari
I'm so proud and happy for you. You are such am amazing, beautiful woman and feel fortunate to have you in my life.
ReplyDeleteGo share all if your wonderful qualities with the world. We'll be here when you come home.
Thank you for being the supportive, non judgmental, loyal friend that you are. You are more appreciated than you know.
I love you always and give you my best as you set out on the next chapter of your life.
Go "suck the marrow out of life"! :)
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ReplyDeleteThank you for including me in your experience. And I give you fair warning that I'm sure I will cry many times reading your blog--today was the first! Tears of joy, I assure you. I just know that this will be the most transformative, wonderful experience for you and I so look forward to following your journey. I'll be sure to include you in my emails that I write from Moldova in May. As you leave for your PC experience, I return to mine 10 years after my staging. The Peace Corps and Nicaragua will not only be a gift for you, but for all of those who know you. We will live vicariously through you and can't wait to see you when you return
ReplyDeleteMari, I am so proud of you and look forward to faithfully reading your blog. I'm so glad you spent this past year at UT with me. It was such a blessing to have you back in my life. Hugs!
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